What is it about being bi-racial (black/white) that makes people think they can say what they please around me.You know what I mean,the obviously racist and stereotypical crap.Well since I do live in Texas I expect that time from time,but not from someone who I mistakenly considered a friend.To make it short,dont trust in-laws that act like a buddy around you but have a notoriously racist/prejudice personality in reality.Im not playing the race card,I had an in-law literally walk into my front door,spitting fire and cussing all sorts of noise.Me and the wife are eating banana pudding while playing Halo3 and he just gets overtly dramatic about a family issue that has nothing to do with me,me wife or my kids.SO ....I kindly ask him to chill out,my wife asks what his problem is and he decides to step to my wife like he's going to hit her.So I push his big ass back and tell him he needs to calm the 'F' down(again!).So he steps to ME like he's going to hit me and he spits out a lame insult ending with "the N word".
Now Im not one to recite MLK or Malcolm X everytime a country music loving,hunting Texan drops "the N word".....I have thick skin and I just blow it off,but when he basically threatened my wife and home with his actions then it pissed me off.I told he was small-minded and needed to get the fuck put,because unlike him I kept my life straight and didnt get a record b/c of drugs,drinking and fighting.Then I said something like "no wonder you have issues,you can rely on yourself to solve them-you need your relatives to hold your hand",at which I thought he was going to hit me (which with his record,I was HOPING he would),but then my wife (AKA angel from heaven) she grabs him and says,"the next time I see you step onto our property,Ill call the police-not to protect us,but to protect you."
And then he got yelled at her mom who thought we were just going to let him talk to us that way,and she got mad at US...HER daughter and her daughters husband???!!
So in the end,he and his family are banned from my home.They are staying away,and I dont hate him or his family-I just hate how he acted and know that is how he really feels.So now my wifes parents are upset with me and think Im acting harshly but me and wife are staying firm with our decision....but...
What do you guys think?Am I wrong for deciding he is no longer welcome in my home?Would you let a supposed friend walk in your home and insult your spouse,family and home?Ill read any answer because while I feel strong about my decision,I am afraid I am acting close-minded.Thanks for the minute







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